8 GREAT TIPS TO DIRTY TALK
8 GREAT TIPS TO DIRTY TALK
When you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, dirty talk can easily come to mind. At face value, dirty talk seems relatively straightforward and easy to do. However, it can still be a bit daunting, because if you're shy, or you haven't tried it before, or you don't know where to start, it can feel like a pretty big leap. I mean, what would you even say?
Berkshire Escorts Agency believe that the key to introducing dirty talk is to just ease into it with phrases that feel organic and natural — but that inspire the imagination and get the mojo flowing. These are small ways to dip your toes into the naughty-talk waters, because it can all be a bit intimidating, but so fun once you get the hang of it. Chances are, you'll discover that it is actually more fun thank you could've guessed, and you'll get more and more comfortable the more you do it. You'll be a dirty-talk pro in no time. But first thing's first:
TELL THEM HOW YOU FEEL
One of the best ways to ease into a little dirty talk is to just think about how you're feeling in the moment, and describe the effect they're having on you. It will make them feel amazing and be much more organic to you. Added bonus: It's a great way to encourage and direct your partner towards doing more of what you want in bed.
Okay, so what do you say, then? Try verbalize the gorgeous sensations you're experiencing at that very moment. That could be as simple as "I'm feeling so turned on right now!" or “Your skin feels so good up against my skin.”
TELL WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO DO
Do not be afraid to let your partner know what you want. Take control by giving them instructions on exactly what feels good for you.
You can say something like “I’ve always wanted someone to spank me… and I want that someone to be you.” or if you’d want to do something hotter, take his hands and place them on your bum, squeezing them with the pressure that you want him to use, and simply say in a breathy whisper, “I want you to grab my ass right now.”
SAY WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO KEEP DOING
If they are already doing something that's rocking your world, by all means, encourage him. Positive reinforcement will lead your lover to give you more of exactly what you're desiring, you can go with some phrases like, “It feels so good… right there, thay way... amazing, don't stop!" and notice how you’ve added some ego and mojo-boosting compliments in there.
SAY WHAT YOU’RE ABOUT TO DO
This is a great way to build anticipation. If you're feeling a little bolder, try whispering your plans for them gently in their ear. If you feel awkward about naming specific body parts, you can keep it suggestively vague with phrases like, "I can't wait to slide my tongue all over you."
It’s guaranteed, when you say a little dirty talk in a low voice it will get you their full attention. Besides, who doesn’t love a dirty little preview?
DON’T BE TOO SERIOUS
We suggest you to keep it light and fun. When you are just starting out, talking dirty is awkward. You are going to have goofy moments and giggles. Don't get hung up on what dirty talking is supposed to sound like. The important thing is to just enjoy each other. One caveat—make sure if you're laughing, you're laughing with each other, not at each other. Never laugh mockingly at your lover's attempts at dirty talk!
TALK ABOUT YOUR PARTNER’S BODY PARTS YOU ADORE
Do you love their delicate boobies? Or their soft lips? Tell them. This will not only make for some spicy dirty talk, it will also help them feel hot and desired.
ASK CONFIDENT QUESTIONS
Dirty talk doesn't have to be a one-way conversation. Ask them questions like, "Do you like the way I make you feel?" or "Do you want me to do that harder or faster?"
ADD IN DRAMATIC PAUSES, SOME SIGHS, AND DEEP BREATHS
Remember the scene in Rocky Horror Picture Show where Tim Curry performing as Dr. Frank-N-Furter says “I see you shiver with antici.......pation"? Try the same thing—not those exact words, of course. But tell them what you're about to do with some pauses, "I'm ... going ... to ... " What? What are you going to do? OMG, the anticipation! Give a little heavy breath in their ear or a little sigh after each pause.
It might seem a bit little scary, but you’ll be surprised by how easily and naturally it rolls off the tongue once you get started, also by how our ladies in Berkshire are experts on that. Call us at +442039885271 or +442039885272. Let’s get in touch and have more fun at Berkshire Escorts!