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While the '50 Shades of Grey' have brought BDSM into the national mainstream, many couples follow a regular lifestyle, including sexual practices that include domination, slavery, and sadism. But is it healthier to be a little faster and submissive to your sex life?

A certified sex therapist works with partners to introduce BDSM to their bedrooms - and tells us the process has fully restored the partnership. It sure makes a difference in a bad relationship.

Experts describe his work, how it might affect BDSM relationships, and how the "vanilla" pair can start to get a little lighter.

How does BDSM affect relationships?

For already involved couples, they are no different. They have the same concerns. It's an expression of their sexual uniqueness, and I always find that our BDSM partners are thrilled because they have found the right partner for them.

But I also help the vanilla couple introduce it into their relationship, sometimes, to save their relationship. I recently met a couple and their wife crying. She says she is no longer interested in her husband and thinks her marriage is over.

They have been married for about ten years. So I got rid of them. They meet individually and discover that their relationship is a power struggle. He is completely in control of the relationship. So I gave him an assignment where she would "punish" him in the bedroom. And it saved their marriage. And they have become a way of life.

I often write BDSM for power struggles or control issues. If the partner has had a bad sexual experience in the past, I write it down as a way to return a sense of control to the partner.

So couples who have never tried BDSM before introduce themselves to their relationship organically.

Many videos are available online. I'll check it out and do some research.

Here's a scenario: One person - playing Dom (in power) can pretend to be the CEO of a company and become a subordinate employee.

There is absolutely nothing to fear when it comes to BDSM. People think it's the same as pain. In reality, however, BDSM includes everything from tying up your partner and flapping your wings to fun characters. You can do as tough a thing as you want - unless you agree. But you don't have to. You can always dip your toes in - and even then, having sex with your partner will add a level of erotic energy.

How do couples live in security and consensus when trying BDSM?

BDSM games are always based on consensus. I work with partners to come up with a safe word - meaning that every time one says the word, what happens has to stop. No questions were asked.

They have also spoken. The expressed scenes should not be organic unless they are fulfilling so that they know each other's boundaries. When they are just starting, they should discuss the previous scene and state the conditions for what will happen.

How should a colleague present the topic of trying to do BDSM?

I recommend that you go to a sex therapist and talk there. Or if you're feeling comfortable enough, I'll talk to your partner - and recommend starting small. Say: "I'm interested in being a little more cheerful in the bedroom - perhaps role-playing or spreading."

I am an excellent supporter of getting help from the bedroom. I think sex therapists are very helpful. They can help you get started.

Have you seen the negative effects of introducing BDSM in your relationship?

If your partner is using BDSM to harm yourself or someone else, this is not your traditional BDSM relationship. Otherwise, I don't think there's anything wrong with introducing him.

Some of my older partners laugh at first when I give them BDSM exercises, but they love the experience when they tell me. He said he felt like he was back in middle school. He thought that doing something in the bedroom that was new, unique, lively, and fun.

Don't be afraid to step outside your comfort zone. You and your partner can completely change your relationship.

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